Apparently this status has been reposted so many times by many of my peers through “Path”
Kanye’s wisdom of relationship resonates to many of us, I get that. He was right, “what a GIRL does is push the guy away to see if he’ll still come back to her to test how much he actually wants to be with her.”
But women don’t treat a relationship as such. Women realize that a relationship is not a ‘mind-trick’ game. Women are emotionally stable to not hang up on you out of frustration or walk away out of anger. Women won’t get jealous for nothing because they can differentiate what’s crossed friendship boundaries and what’s not. Women will tell you exactly what’s wrong because they know how important communication and honesty for a successful relationship. Women have learned that reassurance for a relationship must come within their hearts, not merely the persuasion of their male counterparts.
Such women are rare. TRUE. And it’s only because men continue on feeding these behaviors by making complementing responses, which constrains us to grow and be ‘women’
So guys, before you follow Kanye’s advice - before you call her back or chase after her - ask yourself this: do you really want to play hide-and-seek with ‘girls’ or walk away as she walks away and find yourself a ‘women’?